Bookforum talks with John Koenig about defining obscure emotions and experiences
John Koenig’s new book, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, lives up to its description as a “compendium of new words for emotions.” To many readers, the most recognizable of his neologisms is surely sonder—“the realization that each random passerby is the main character of their own story, in which you are just an extra in the background”—which Koenig introduced years ago and has since found its way into the popular lexicon because of, one assumes, the ubiquity of the realization.
Yet any dictionary is also an exhibition of language’s status as a—or, depending on which theorist you consult,